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By Calvin Todd, Group Marketing Lead, Brand and Content\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

In mid-November of 2023, my wife and I welcomed our first child into the world. Bearing witness to our daughter\u2019s birth was single-handedly the most awe-inspiring, special moment of my life. My wife and I went from a two-person family to a family of three overnight, and like most new parents – we left the hospital in unfamiliar territory, unsure of what life had in store for us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In the whirlwind of today’s fast-paced world, it often feels like I’m navigating through an endless stream of advice as a father. On one side, there’s the chorus of voices singing praises about the importance of taking paternity leave, and at the same time, there’s this lingering narrative that still romanticises the traditional archetype for men, whereby paternity leave is discouraged.<\/p>\n

Spoiler alert – I disagree with the latter.<\/p>\n

McKinsey & Company\u2019s research<\/a> reveals that paternity leave benefits the wellbeing of partners, families and fathers. In my own experience, I felt that there’s something incredibly profound about the emotional connections formed during the initial weeks of parenthood. I believe it\u2019s the ability to recognise the temporary nature of that precious time and the special bond it fosters within a family.<\/p>\n

But let’s not forget, taking paternity leave means temporarily stepping back from work, and that decision isn’t always straightforward. Law firm EMW<\/a> found that paternity leave has dropped to a 10-year low, which has had a negative effect on gender equality. The longer you’ve invested in your career, the harder it becomes to hit the pause button, and the more driven you are at building your career, the more paternity leave can be seen as a hinderance. Around three-quarters of men<\/a> admit there is a stigma attached to paternity leave, with a clear majority agreeing workplace culture needs to change.<\/p>\n

However, I’ve come to realise that prioritising my career at the expense of my family isn\u2019t worth it, and neither is compromising my emotional wellbeing. We need to remember that burnout isn’t just a personal struggle; it affects your entire family unit.<\/p>\n

It shouldn\u2019t come as a surprise that paternity leave enables partners to return to work and increases job satisfaction<\/a>. Additionally, some studies show<\/a> a woman\u2019s earnings rise by 6.7% for every month of paternity leave taken by her partner. In light of promoting inclusion, this is why I believe it\u2019s important for progressive parental leave to be discussed. Evidence<\/a> also shows that such policies can positively influence employee retention and engagement levels.<\/p>\n

Looking ahead, I firmly believe that most men would readily embrace paternity leave if they understood its true value. It’s not just about taking a break from work; it’s about investing in personal growth and nurturing stronger connections with your loved ones, ultimately bringing greater compassion, empathy and understanding back to the workplace. For me, it\u2019s about being seen as a support structure for my wife, and solidifying the \u201cwe\u2019re in this together” ethos. Yes, this includes the nappy changes at 1am (in the heart of winter).<\/p>\n

In my own journey advocating for paternity leave, my biggest discovery is directly linked to what benefits my family the most. Sharing the responsibilities of caregiving isn’t solely about household chores or nappy changes; it’s a declaration of where my true priorities lie. And when my IQ aligns with my EQ, it fosters deeper trust and respect within my professional relationships.<\/p>\n

Here’s to continually pushing the dial for a cultural shift that champions and celebrates paternity leave. After all, families thrive when both partners are fully engaged and supported in their parenting journey.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15140,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"content-type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"expertise":[288],"service_category":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nEmbracing paternity leave: investing in family time for lasting connections - IQ-EQ<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Calvin Todd discusses how paternity leave can positively impact gender equality, while also providing benefits to the whole family. 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